Me and @gabba have been married for 31 years and I think the single biggest, and possibly only, cause of strife between us is when we are in the car and she is dressed like she's outside with a scarf and puffer jacket on and I'm not, but not allowed to turn the heat up in the car to be warm.

Because she gets too hot.

Is anyone else's marriage so close to being on the rocks because of this?

When the wind is blowing like this, it really shows how leaky all our windows are. 40 year old aluminium joinery is not good.